The Sims 4 offers endless possibilities for storytelling, creativity, and customization. One area where the game truly shines is in the relationships between Sims. Whether you’re aiming to create a close-knit family, a tumultuous romance, or just want to shake things up, relationship cheats can help you take full control over your Sims’ connections. In this guide, we’ll explore everything you need to know about relationship cheats in The Sims 4, including how to use them, their syntax, and some tips to maximize their potential.

How to Enable Cheats in The Sims 4

Before diving into relationship manipulation, it’s essential to know how to enable cheats in The Sims 4. These cheats won’t work unless you activate the cheat console and set the game to recognize cheats.

Step-by-Step Guide to Activate Cheats

  • PC: Press Ctrl + Shift + C.
  • Mac: Press Command + Shift + C.
  • Console (PS4/PS5/Xbox): Hold down all four triggers/buttons (L1, L2, R1, R2).

This will open the cheat console at the top of your screen. To activate cheats, type testingcheatsenabled true or testingcheats on and hit Enter. Now, you’re ready to use relationship cheats!

Essential Relationship Cheats in The Sims 4

The Sims 4 relationship cheats allow you to modify the dynamics between two Sims, whether it’s romance, friendship, or adversarial relationships. Understanding the modifyrelationship command is crucial to making the most out of these cheats.

Syntax for Relationship Cheats

The basic syntax for relationship cheats is:

modifyrelationship [First Name of Sim 1] [Last Name of Sim 1] [First Name of Sim 2] [Last Name of Sim 2] [Relationship Change Amount] [Relationship Type]

Replace the placeholders with the respective Sim names, relationship values, and relationship type. Below, you’ll see practical examples to help you understand how it works.

Cheat Examples

  • Increase Friendship:
    modifyrelationship John Doe Jane Doe 50 Friendship_Main

    Adds 50 points to the friendship score between John and Jane.

  • Decrease Friendship:
    modifyrelationship John Doe Jane Doe -50 Friendship_Main

    Subtracts 50 points from their friendship.

  • Increase Romantic Relationship:
    modifyrelationship John Doe Jane Doe 50 LTR_Romance_Main

    Adds 50 points to their romantic score.

  • Decrease Romantic Relationship:
    modifyrelationship John Doe Jane Doe -50 LTR_Romance_Main

    Reduces their romantic standing.

Understanding Relationship Values

Relationships in The Sims 4 are measured on a scale ranging from -100 to +100, where:

  • -100: Hostile or despised relationships.
  • 0: Neutral relationship—no strong feelings one way or another.
  • +100: Maxed out friendship or romantic relationship.

Avoiding One-Sided Relationships

The relationship cheat affects only one Sim’s perception. If you want a mutual relationship status change, you’ll need to enter the cheat twice, swapping the positions of the Sims in the syntax. For example:

modifyrelationship John Doe Jane Doe 50 Friendship_Main
modifyrelationship Jane Doe John Doe 50 Friendship_Main

Additional Relationship Cheats

Besides the base modifyrelationship cheat, The Sims 4 also includes a variety of other cheats for relationship management.

Create Friends Instantly

relationships.create_friends_for_sim

This cheat spawns a new Sim on your lot with a 50% friendship level with your current active Sim, perfect for when your Sim needs a companion quickly.

Be Introduced to All Sims

relationships.introduce_sim_to_all_others

If you want your Sim to know every Sim in the world (including the deceased), this cheat ensures introductions are made instantly.

Set Specific Relationship States

Using mods like the MC Command Center (MCCC), you can specify relationship statuses like “Best Friends,” “Enemies,” or “Married” without the hassle of altering points manually. This tool is excellent for creating custom scenarios.

Step-by-Step Guide – Using the Modifyrelationship Cheat

  1. Ensure you’ve enabled cheats using testingcheatsenabled true.
  2. Identify the full names of both Sims whose relationship you want to modify.
  3. Decide the type of relationship change: friendship (Friendship_Main) or romance (LTR_Romance_Main).
  4. Enter the appropriate cheat syntax into the console.
  5. For consistent results, run the cheat twice, swapping the Sim names for mutual effects.

Tips and Precautions

  • Save Often: Always save your game before using cheats to avoid unintended consequences.
  • Max Relationships Gradually: Incremental changes often feel more natural. Instead of jumping from -100 to +100, consider smaller increments of 25 or 50 points.
  • Experiment with Mods: For more nuanced control, explore mods that provide additional relationship management features.
  • Be Creative: Use cheats to enrich storylines—whether it’s rekindling a lost love or sparking an unexpected rivalry!

FAQ

How do I enable cheats on a console?

On PS4, PS5, or Xbox, hold all four triggers (L1, L2, R1, R2) simultaneously to open the cheat console. Then, type testingcheats on and press Enter.

What is the difference between Friendship_Main and LTR_Romance_Main?

Friendship_Main modifies friendship levels, while LTR_Romance_Main changes the romantic relationship status between Sims.

Can I make two Sims enemies using cheats?

Yes, set a negative value for Friendship_Main. For example: modifyrelationship John Doe Jane Doe -100 Friendship_Main.

Do cheats disable achievements?

Yes, enabling cheats on consoles often disables achievements or trophies for that session. On PCs, achievements remain intact.

What happens if my Sims have a negative romantic relationship?

They may break up, divorce, or avoid romantic interactions entirely.

Can I use cheats for pets in The Sims 4?

No, relationship cheats currently do not work for relationships with pets.

Is there a mod for relationships?

Yes, the MC Command Center mod offers advanced relationship management, including setting specific statuses and dynamics.

Do I need to be on the same lot to use cheats?

No, you can use relationship cheats as long as you know the full names of both Sims.

Why isn’t the cheat working?

Ensure you’ve enabled testingcheats and entered the names correctly. Double-check your syntax for errors.

Can I undo relationship changes made with cheats?

Yes, just enter the reverse relationship point value (e.g., subtracting points if you previously added them).

Conclusion

Relationship cheats in The Sims 4 provide a powerful way to shape dynamic stories and interactions. Whether you’re looking to max out a budding romance, foster unbreakable friendships, or create a bitter rivalry, these cheats let you control every aspect of your Sims’ connections. By following this guide and understanding the tools at your disposal, you can bring your Sims universe to life like never before. So have fun experimenting and take your storytelling to the next level!